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The lawyers have a process. The paperwork has a process. For everything that happens at your front door, at bedtime and on your phone, you’re on your own.
“Is it my fault?” Out of nowhere, in the dark. You said something. You’ve replayed it all night, wondering if it was the right thing.
The bag is packed, the car is outside, and she’s holding on to your leg. Do you make her go — or let her stay and start a war?
The phone buzzes. Three paragraphs about being late. You’ve rewritten your reply four times. It’s still in drafts — and you’re still awake.
No soccer run. No noise. Their shoes aren’t by the door. The house is so quiet it hurts.
“Where am I sleeping tonight?” Third time this week. They’re not being difficult. They just can’t see the plan.
“Ask your father if he’s even coming.” It was out before you could stop it. Then you saw their face in the mirror.
Here’s what decades of research keep finding: it isn’t the separation itself that weighs on children most. It’s the conflict that keeps going after it — at the door, in front of them, in the tone of a message they overhear.
The 10 pm text gets a 10:01 pm reply. The question at bedtime gets whatever comes out. When you’re hurting, the hurt picks the words.
You’ll talk to the kids properly “when it’s calmer”. Meanwhile they fill the silence with their own story — and in that story, it’s usually their fault.
Great advice, no time. Nobody reads chapter 11 in a parking lot two minutes before a handover.
You’re not doing it wrong. You’re doing the hardest parenting job there is — without a script. This kit is the script.
Tap a moment and see exactly what the kit tells you — word for word.
5 short guides and 4 printables for the first weeks, the first year and every hard moment in between. One idea per page. Sentences you can say out loud.
305 pages — but you never have to read them in order. Every guide opens with a 10-minute quick start and a contents page where every line is a link.
Real pages from the kit.
You can’t control what your co-parent sends, says or does. The kit doesn’t need them. Everything in it works from your home, with your child, starting tonight. And when one parent keeps answering calmly, briefly and fairly, conflict usually shrinks — there’s simply less to push against.
| The kit | Big divorce books | Forums & Google | Waiting it out | |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Ready tonight, on your phone | ✓ | ✕ | ✓ | ✕ |
| Exact words to say, by age | ✓ | Sometimes | ✕ | ✕ |
| Copy-paste replies for your co-parent | ✓ | ✕ | ✕ | ✕ |
| Printable calendar & checklists | ✓ | ✕ | ✕ | ✕ |
| Works if your ex won’t cooperate | ✓ | Sometimes | Mixed advice | ✕ |
| The answer in seconds, not chapters | ✓ | ✕ | Maybe | ✕ |
When a family splits into two homes, there’s a process for the lawyers and a process for the paperwork. There’s nothing for the moment your child asks “Is it my fault?” in the dark — or the text that arrives at 9:47 pm.
So we built what we couldn’t find: short, calm guides that tell you what to say, word for word. We started from published parenting-plan guides and research on children and separation, and turned them into sentences you can actually use on a Tuesday night.
No jargon. No blame. No 300 pages of theory. Just the next right thing to say — and a plan for the week.
— The Parenthood Kits team
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Ten minutes: the words for the kids, the 4-line reply and your first handover plan.
Before a handover, after a text, at bedtime: open the contents page and tap straight to the moment you’re in.
A download: PDF guides and printables. You get them on the screen right after paying and by email. Nothing ships.
Yes. Everything works even if only you use it — Guide 3 includes a plan for when cooperation just isn’t happening.
Ages 3 to 17, with separate scripts and advice for 3–5, 6–9, 10–12 and teens.
No. Kids re-process the separation as they grow — new questions at 8, 12 and 15 are normal. The kit covers those, plus schedules, holidays and new partners.
Both, in any arrangement. We say “Mom” and “Dad” for readability — swap in whatever fits your family.
No. Nothing says “divorce” in the sender name, on the receipt or on your bank statement. No app, no account.
Yes. Short pages, big type and a contents page where every line is a link. Most parents read the Quick Start in bed, then look things up in the moment.
Neither. It’s practical words and plans for everyday parenting. For custody or legal questions, talk to a family lawyer or mediator.
It works alongside them. Professionals help with the big picture; the kit gives you the words for Tuesday night at 9:47 pm.
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Calm, age-by-age answers to the 10 hardest questions kids ask after a separation — from “Is it my fault?” to “Will you get back together?”. Print it or keep it on your phone.
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